Manager Coaching and Team Training Are Not the Same Thing
By Kristen Hayer
When attrition creeps up or skill gaps start showing in renewal conversations, many CS leaders reach for the same solution: They tell their managers to coach more. It's an understandable instinct. Managers are close to the work, they know their CSMs, and coaching feels more immediate than building or overhauling a training program. The problem is that coaching and training do fundamentally different things. Conflating them leaves gaps that neither one can fill on its own.
What coaching actually is:
Coaching is responsive and individual. It happens in the context of real work: a manager debriefing a difficult customer call, helping a CSM think through a renewal at risk, or giving feedback after a QBR that didn't land. The power of coaching is in its specificity and timing. A good coaching conversation meets a CSM where they are and helps them apply or refine a skill in a real situation. What it cannot do is introduce that skill in the first place. Coaching works best when there is an existing foundation to build on.
What training actually is:
Training is proactive and collective. It introduces the concepts, frameworks, and skills a team needs before the moment of application arrives. It creates shared language and a common baseline, which is what gives manager coaching something to work with. Without that baseline, managers end up re-explaining the same fundamentals repeatedly, which is neither efficient nor a good use of anyone's time.
Where CS leaders get this wrong
Most CS leaders default to one approach or the other. Some build training programs and assume managers will handle application and reinforcement on their own. Others rely entirely on managers to develop their teams informally, which creates significant inconsistency across the organization. Some CSMs end up with excellent development because they have a strong manager who prioritizes coaching. Others get almost none. The quality of a CSM's development should not depend on who is assigned to be their manager.
Both approaches used alone also carry retention risk. A Gallup study found that 42% of employees who voluntarily left their jobs felt their manager or organization could have done something to prevent their departure, suggesting that targeted development conversations could reduce preventable turnover by nearly half. Coaching is a meaningful part of that. So is making sure CSMs have access to structured training that doesn't live or die with any one manager.
How the two work together
Training lays the foundation; coaching builds on it. Consider a skill like executive communication, which is one of the most common gaps on CS teams. A training program can introduce the framework: how to structure an agenda, how to lead with business outcomes, how to handle an executive who goes off script. It gives CSMs a chance to practice in a low-stakes environment and internalize the approach before they are sitting across from a CFO.
From there, coaching takes over. A manager can debrief a real executive meeting, help a CSM identify what worked and what didn't, and push them to apply the framework more precisely next time. That combination is far more effective than either approach alone. Training without coaching produces knowledge that doesn't translate into behavior. Coaching without training produces inconsistent results, because each manager is essentially building the foundation from scratch with each CSM.
What this means in practice
When a CS leader tells managers to coach more, they are often asking managers to do something they are not equipped or resourced to do alone. The better approach is to build a training program that gives managers something to coach against, and then hold managers accountable for the coaching conversations that follow.
That means designing training with application in mind, not just completion. It means briefing managers on what their teams are learning so they can reinforce it. And it means treating coaching not as a substitute for training, but as its natural continuation.
The CS leaders who get this right end up with something more valuable than a team that has completed a curriculum. They end up with a team where learning is continuous, consistent, and connected to real work. That is a meaningful competitive advantage, and it starts with understanding that coaching and training are partners, not interchangeable options.
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Kristen Hayer - Kristen is the Founder & CEO of The Success League, a global, customer-focused consulting and training firm. Kristen’s background includes leading award-winning sales, marketing, and customer success teams in early and growth-stage tech companies. She is the host of several podcasts on CS and leadership, and has written over 100 articles on the field of customer success. The book she recently co-authored with 5 other CS thought leaders - The Customer Success Talent Playbook - recently hit #1 on Amazon in 5 categories. Kristen received her MBA from the University of Washington and splits her time between San Francisco and San Felipe, Mexico.
